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As I mentioned in an earlier post. I have claimed the term “slut” as a positive, and going beyond simply not mind being called one, but also loving to be called a slut.

There are other terms that are considered insulting to sex workers, but many sex worker women have embraced.

Another word is cunt. Some feminists had even embraced this word. I love the word cunt too. For me, it not only sounds strong, but hot and sexy too. This is also I word I have embraced. Grand dame sexpert, Betty Dodson, who is 77 this year, wrote the forward to the book, Cunt.

I only use vibrators in my sex shows, because they are nice and smooth, easy on the pussy. I never turn it on because the vibrations de-sensitizes my pussy and makes me need to a more strong vibration to get an orgasm. So I just use it as a dildo.

I don’t use dildos because I find them to be too coarse on the skin of my pussy. It makes me sore easily. I don’t want to use much lube, not any actually; guests can certainly understand  the need for lube doing anal, but whipping out lube for your pussy…They’ll wonder how come your pussy isn’t naturally wet. It is–very wet–most of the time.

Thanks to the Playboy channel, I have learned so much about the adult industry. All the truths and the myths.

Now, when I read blogs about the real truth on porn sets, for example, I already know about it.

I would love to be invited on the set of a porn shooting. I know it’s kind of boring watching a real live set but it would be quite an event to witness.

I believe one’s sexual orientation begins at a very early age in life. I don’t believe a person is born a certain way. We develop preferences, desires, etc. emotionally, mentally, and physically at our very early stages of life.

I’m not sure when I knew I was bisexual. I do remember being turned on by women, but I really thought nothing of it. It seemed as natural as liking guys. I felt no shame, or thought I was weird.

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I would LOVE to subscribe to Playboy TV today, but there is a reason why I’m waiting: Because of all the vampire themes they do for October.

They have a “Director’s Cut” film every night, which shows the most explicit X-rated films on TV. Now, it’s pretty much all vampire porn, as usual, during October. I’m not interested in seeing violence along with sex. I mean, love bites is one thing, but vampire bites is a whole different matter.

No, the title doesn’t suggest I had record-breaking traffic webcamming today! lol!  It’s sort of a holiday in a few cities in the United States, celebrated on the third Saturday of October.

And talk about excellent timing! I just realized this morning that Jay and I will be going on vacation the same day of Sweetest Day! How apropos! So romantic. Most areas in the U.S. don’t celebrate it. It’s very big in Detroit, my hometown. Apparently Sweetest Day is huge in Buffalo, NY but in Manhattan it’s hardly known. When I lived in Manhattan I found only a couple places that had Sweetest Day cards. Jay has never heard of it, but he isn’t a real romantic type anyway.

Often, I’ve thought of going beyond just being an adult webcam host, especially when I get too old for this (though places like ImLive have a category for the mature).

Sex work is really an exciting business. But personally, I think most women do it just for the money; I even heard of some women webcam hosts who cry and get offended when a guest calls them a slut. I feel like saying to these girls: ‘Uh, well dear…Let’s see now….You take all your clothes off in front of a camera, getting totally naked and doing explicit sex acts like masturbating to total strangers, most of whom you don’t even know what they look like. Newsflash babe: In the “real world”, most communities on this planet would define you as a slut. Accept that and deal with it.’

I hate it when I’m using a toy and a guest is saying: “HARDER, FASTER, DEEPER over and over again. Never will I have those kinds of guests again. I imagine they are sitting back busy watching a game, can of beer in one hand, with the other hand just typing out HARDER, FASTER, DEEPER, or maybe they are gone from the room and have their pet monkey typing it out. They should shove a dildo up their ass for 30+ minutes and see how that feels. Anyway, I doubt if they’re still busy jerking off.

I love it when it gets so busy when webcamming. I get “In the Zone” and I’m REALLY rockin’!

Because of the holidays, it was so slow. I started worrying a bit then I said, well it’s a holiday, things will pick up.

Yes it did! I almost made up for yesterday! One after the other….I really orgasmed–I had a great time. Even with a headache all day!

Did I ever tell you how much I love my job?

College students should be an adult webcam girl for money; it’s totally safe and the sky’s the limit at what you can make.