How should I shave my pussy, and why should I shave it? Will it make a difference to sex?
Full Bush in Fremont
Dear Full Bush,
There are lots of ways to shave your pussy, but I recommend if the hair on your pussy is really thick and long, you should start by using scissors and cut off as much of the hair as you can with it. This will make it a much easier job when you then use a razor to finish getting off the rest of the hair.
After the scissors, I would take a nice, sharp razor (even a disposable will do; a plain, cheap, disposable razor works for me but many of you, you may want to get a fancier shaver. Try several shavers out and pick the best two choices for you.) and shave in the shower, but first make sure your pubic hair is well saturated with water as this will soften up the pubic hairs and make it much easier to shave completely off.
Another great way is to get a thick, wet washcloth and wet it with very warm water, then apply it to your pussy for a few minutes. This will also make it easier to shave the rest of your pussy hair. Always use a sharp, preferably new, razor.
How you position yourself when you shave is up to you. Do whatever you feel is comfortable. I have even shaved sitting on the toilet (not while using the toilet of course!) My legs are spread out and my pussy hair just drops conveniently in the toilet. No mess. No fuss.
Many people use shaving cream while shaving their pussy. It’s your choice but I would never use any chemicals or anything artificial ingredients. Always try to go with 100% all natural ingredients for shaving creams in case your skin is very sensitive and should lessen irritation. Shaving cream with aloe is very good. I just use good quality soap, which works fine for me.
Pick a spot to begin shaving and move the razor over your pussy using long, even strokes with the hair grain. Try not to go over the same patch of skin twice and do not use aggressive strokes; both ways may cause skin irritation. Be very careful when approaching the hard to shave places, like the bottom part of the pussy and just inside the outer pussy lips.
After you have finished going over your pussy once, rinse the entire pussy area to get a better look to see if you missed any hair. Shave over those areas if necessary.
You can apply a moisturizing cream on your pussy to help combat bumps and to help keep your pussy skin smooth and soft.
How often you shave depends on you. I shave every other day to keep my pussy pretty nice and smooth. Just be sure to have lots of time to shave; you never want to be in a hurry and possibly nick your pussy skin!
I guess most women experience at least some itchiness after shaving, although I never have. Using a nice moisturizer should help feelings of itchiness.
I find electric shavers don’t really do a good job in getting a close shave. Plus, shaving the difficult areas might be awkward with electric. Several men have told me they prefer a razor because razor-shaved skin feels so much smoother after they use it.
Why should you shave, and will it make a difference in sex? Well, going all natural IS sexy, in my opinion, but going bald makes for a more pleasant oral sex experience for both partners. I don’t know any person who loves getting pussy hairs stuck on their tongue or caught in their throat (Did you ever see the TV episode of Curb Your Enthusiasm when Larry went down on his wife and got a pubic hair stuck in his throat? He kept hacking throughout the entire episode. It’s so funny!)
Many men are turned on by the sight of a smoothly shaved pussy. To some men, a shaved pussy is very erotic. It’s silky-feeling, inviting and very sexy. Your pussy will feel the slightest touch when bald and make you go wild! It’s a more intense, erotic feel when your pussy is completely shaved.
By the way, recent paparazzi photos seem to confirm that both Paris Hilton and Britney Spears shave, as well as go panty-less. It’s nice to know I have things in common with the rich crowd–now if only I had their money too!
Try it out. If you don’t like the way your pussy looks–no problem. Just let your pubic hair grow back.