Archive for November, 2006

Sex Addict?!

Wednesday, November 29th, 2006

This article was obviously written by a vanilla person. Here’s why:

1. Having 150 men in 6 years is really no big deal. I mean, that’s only averaging having sex with two different guys a month. Having sex with strangers is not uncommon either. I would say most sexually active single people have done that.

2. Many people have lost their virginity at 17. Actually, if living in the US, the average legal age of consent is 16.

3. Having sex with someone nearly everyday if it’s the same people of average of two people a month is not unusual at all.

Crunch Time at ImLive!

Tuesday, November 28th, 2006

Well, pay period at ImLive ends on the 30th, and I have been even working on weekend mornings to hopefully make enough to still be a Hall of Famer, but most importantly, make my own personal quota. I really don’t mind webcamming on the weekends as long as I don’t have any morning offline plans and I stop working by noon; after noon time, I start to resent it, feeling I will regret it.

The Eve and the Day of Thanksgiving Plans

Wednesday, November 22nd, 2006

We have two TV’s in the apartment: one in the living room, and the other was in the master bedroom, but Jay and I decided to put the one in the bedroom, in the office where I do my live adult shows. I’m there most of my waking days so it’s nice having a TV in the office so I can watch it during slow times at ImLive.

We very rarely watched TV in the master bedroom; we read instead.

Sugasm 55 – I was picked again!

Tuesday, November 21st, 2006

I’m on a roll, picked again!  Thanks to everybody who voted me! 

This week’s best of the sex blogs from the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasmer participants. Want in Sugasm #56? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the linklist within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
To Tell or Not to Tell… (http://lipstickexplosion.com)
“Jane Falling claims it’s best not to tell, and she writes, ‘my identity as a prostitute is too serious a secret to trust with near-strangers.’”

Adult Toys and My First Time

Monday, November 20th, 2006

Years ago, I read how great orgasms can be and how to have one. I wanted to experience that supposed great feeling of orgasmic release.

My first “sex toy” was a glass coke bottle. I inserted the long glass neck in my pussy and used it vigorously, rubbing my clitoris and G-Spot. It felt good but nothing really happened. Then I decided to stop being so cheap and invest in a real sex toy: A vibrator.

Being an Exhibitionist

Friday, November 17th, 2006

I think, by definition, being an exhibitionist is more than just performing naked on camera for a living. Many–and I would say most–adult webcam workers do not do this kind of work for fun also. It’s just purely about the money.

I’m a webcam sex worker for fun and profit. But just getting naked in front of a camera doesn’t always satisfy my exhibitionist side. I also like to really go from behind closed doors and have sex outdoors.

The article mentions some reasons why people want to have sex in public. From those reasons, mine are:

Sugasm 54 – I’m a pick!

Wednesday, November 15th, 2006

This Week’s Picks
My Response to The Government’s Pushing of Celibacy on Adults! (http://totalsensuality.blogspot.com)
“We should teach that SEX IS ABOUT PLEASURE.”

Flying in the Face of Censorship (http://www.suzanneportnoy.com)
“But these days, the UK is Europe’s frisky frontier, and the hotties are flying in from all over.”

Life as an Adult Cam Worker (http://www.model-chat.com)
“Experiment with days and times to find out what’s the best time for you to be on live.”

To Shave or Not to Shave

Wednesday, November 15th, 2006

When I decided I wanted to be an adult webcam host, I had a full–but neatly trimmed–pubic hair bush. I debated whether I should keep it or shave it, wanting to go by what the majority of my guests would like, since it’s not something one can constantly and quickly switch back and forth, from bald to full bush at a moment’s notice. I had to make my decision carefully.

I stayed full bush for about my first two weeks as a live adult host. I got good traffic, but seeing as about 95% hosts, including all top hosts, are shaved, I decided to do the smartest thing:

Hot Sex Books and a New Bed

Tuesday, November 14th, 2006

Lots of KUDOS goes to award-winning sex blogger turned successful author Abby Lee, whose blog I always have the pleasure of reading at Girl With a One-Track Mind.

Her new book, Girl With a One-Track Mind: Confessions of the Seductress Next Door, is selling in the U.K. like hotcakes! Gee, I didn’t know she was ALL THAT. I should ask for her to sign my book when I get it. The press always manages to find out the real person no matter how much one tries to hide it. They have fantastic connections. I hope everyone now knowing who Abbey Lee really is results in being a positive in her life.

Adult Cam Host Pet Peeves

Friday, November 10th, 2006

When I’m doing a very long show, including doing anal, then near the end, the guest says to take the toy or finger from out of my ass hole and put it in my mouth.

Why didn’t he mention something as nasty as that prior to our video session? Surely this isn’t a common thing hosts do? (Or maybe it is! Money talks!)  

If it’s kinky or nasty, the guest should mention to the host if it’s OK before video session–which ATM (ass-to-mouth) is NOT ok with me.