Lots of KUDOS goes to award-winning sex blogger turned successful author Abby Lee, whose blog I always have the pleasure of reading at Girl With a One-Track Mind.

Her new book, Girl With a One-Track Mind: Confessions of the Seductress Next Door, is selling in the U.K. like hotcakes! Gee, I didn’t know she was ALL THAT. I should ask for her to sign my book when I get it. The press always manages to find out the real person no matter how much one tries to hide it. They have fantastic connections. I hope everyone now knowing who Abbey Lee really is results in being a positive in her life.

Her story in the Washington Post is very interesting, especially when she talks about today’s societal views about sexuality. Yes, we do still have a long way to go in having a positive attitude about sex.

I am currently reading the book, The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Catherine A. Liszt, that I purchased at my favorite woman’s adult book store on Saturday. The authors say–to them–being a slut means “any gender who has the courage to lead life according to the radical proposition that sex is nice and pleasure is good for you.”

The authors mean well, and the book is a fascinating read, but it is a bit self-indulgent–even including regarding the title (the book btw, was published in 1997). I mean, how many people know about being an Ethical Slut? Most people never heard of the term, much less knows how it’s defined. The authors have coined a term regarding alternative lifestyles and defined it nicely but after nearly a decade since it was published, only their small ring of community knows about it. I must say though, the book would make a great college thesis!

Also at the adult bookstore, I bought a cool GLBT key-chain. It’s a regular two-piece key-chain but the signature GLBT colorful rainbow are movable rings linked around one of the main keyrings. It’s different and beautiful.

When moving to Oregon from New York City, I left many books behind, including one of my favorite sex author’s biography: Tristan Taormino’s True Lust, subtitled: adventures in sex, porn and perversion. It’s a great read; if you had to choose only one of her books, get this one. The bookcover alone is worth the money spent! WOW!

Anal sex is Tristan’s main interest. She is the self-titled “Butt Girl”, and I read a post about her in a blog where the writer calls her the “Butt Whisperer”. lol! I normally hate those “________ Whisperer” names, but I love that one! I emailed the link to that blog post to Tristan.

Oh! I almost forgot to tell you! Jay bought me a daybed to play on at work! He’s so sweet! It’s a single bed, with white frames. The four knobs on the frames are made of porcelain; the knobs are colorfully flowered and antique-looking. It’s gorgeous.

We set it up on Sunday, so I had some time to practice my sex moves on it. I kind of wish it was bigger, but I do now have lots of space in the room. I may even put a TV in here; as I wait for guests I can watch Playboy TV or a mainstream film. My other bed was a blow-up one; it was a queen size bed–nice and big, but at times I felt like I was on a gigantic raft boat.

I signed up for another sex workshop class coming up soon. This time I’m only going to sign up for classes where I think I can learn a lot from, which means I probably won’t be signing up for many, but that’s OK. I need to be at Imlive working more hours.

Jay and I might be going somewhere after Thanksgiving. I’m concerned about taking so much time off work. Well, maybe we will stay home. But early next year we do plan on going away for a week or so.